If you lack confidence, i.e. you get insecure around women in general or just particularly hot women, then you need to enhance your confidence as part of your self-improvement program that is necessary to attract lots of women over the long run.
Women love it when a man improves himself without external force. In other words self motivated attitude to be better and better goes a long way in developing the attitude that high quality women just can't resist. This will make your dating life much much easier.
Any insecurities you may have around women can be significantly reduced if you focus your mind regularly on positive affirmations and thoughts that lead to you being more confident, open and affectionate with women.
Extract from WebMD about hypnosis:
Hypnosis is merely a tool -- a technique to tap into the subconscious, says Oster, who heads the American Society of Clinical Hypnosis.
No pocket watches are involved and no one clucks like a chicken afterward.
In fact hypnosis is a state of concentration and focused attention. With it the mind can be more powerful. You simply have slipped into your subconscious.
In a hypnotherapist's office, you can learn self-hypnosis. Don't worry, you won't lose control. You won't do anything against your will. "No one takes away our choice under any conditions -- no one can make you do anything you wouldn't normally do," says Jane Ann Covington, a hypnotist in Atlanta and founder of the Hypnosis Institute International Center for Developing Mastery.
In hypnosis, you don't even lose consciousness, Covington tells WebMD.
Read more at WebMd's article "Hypnosis Goes Mainstream". Learn more about hypnosis from WebMD here.
The following videos use an advanced sound technology called Binaural Beats that help you relax deeply so you can access a more focused mental state (for self hypnosis) easily.
For the binaural beats to work you must use stereo headphones.
Focusing your mind on what you want, with words and pictures, helps you slip new ideas and habits into your subconscious. So focusing on confidence and successful dating experiences it will become easier and easier for you to maintain that attitude in everyday life.
Listen to only one video at a time. Bookmark this page to do listen to these audios regularly for the most improvement.
This audio video is 9 minutes long and is designed to help you improve your confidence so you can attract more women.
This audio video is 15 minutes long and is designed to focus your thoughts on opening up more in relationships which will make more and more women want to continue dating you.
Dating Tips for Men: Use Self Confidence To Date More Women
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